The story goes that two friends were walking through the desert.During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything,wrote in the sand:"Today my best friend slapped me in the face."

They kept on walking untill they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath.The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning,but the friend saved him.

After he recovered from the near drowning,he wrote on a stone:"Today my best friend saved my life."

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him:"After I hurt you,you wrote in the sand and now you write on a stone. Why?"

The other friend replied:"When someone hurt us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away.But when someone does something good for us,we must engrave it in the stone where no wind can ever erase it."

Learned to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your benefits in stone.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate him,a day to love him,but an entire life to forget him.

(Today I have read this story and I have a strong feeling about it.My dear friend, I can clearly remember the time we had spent together in high school.At that time, I thought it was too hard for me,but now every time when I think of that time,all the memories seem so sweet even those hurt memories.So I think I have done as the story above tells.)